In her book entitled ‘Finding love without looking for it’… Céline Colle draws on her own experience. That of the quest for love. After a new romantic failure, the writer decides to take her life in hand, to get to know herself better. Be positive, heal your wounds, learn to love yourself… Essential steps according to the author for love to come to you without forcing destiny.
Love: learning to love yourself
“We cannot love someone properly and ask the other to love us properly without loving ourselves,” says Céline Colle.
Indeed, according to the author, for a relationship to be stable… The other must not be “a bandage”, a “crutch” but “a life partner”. So before the meeting, it is therefore important to learn to be self-sufficient and to be complete.
First, it goes through self-esteem. “We start by stopping comparing ourselves to others, to look, to be aware of our qualities, to relearn how to look at ourselves. We create a mantra where every morning and every evening we repeat to ourselves, for example, that we are beautiful, legitimate in our profession and funny. Consider Celine Colle.
Heal his wounds
Indeed, we all have wounds which, in love, resurface. Some known ones are easier to cure. While others are so buried that they require more in-depth work.
The expert’s advice: “Do not hesitate to go see a professional (psychologist, psychiatrist, sophrologist, editor’s note) who will help us find and treat the problem.” Also, some therapies can soothe wounds: shamanism, list the author, hypnotherapy, reiki.
Change your outlook on life!
“Become the one you want to be friends with.” In fact, the third step seems easy, but it still requires work on yourself.
It’s not about changing your look or going through the knife. “Of course we can change physically if it makes us feel better. But above all, you have to change your vision of the world, the way you look at others.” This quest can be the occasion for a spiritual opening… which could now lead to the meeting of your twin flame!
Attract good vibes!
In ‘Finding love without looking for it’, Céline Colle mentions the law of attractiveness “which starts from the postulate that we receive what we are”. She explains as follows: “We send energy, waves like a radio. When our energy is negative, the universe sends us back the same thing, negative. It’s like a mirror.”
It is therefore important to send positive things and to “order the universe” to do positive things. For example, in a letter or wishing box, make a wish to the universe and Believe it.
Welcome love!
A very important step! When love presents itself, we can miss it. “After all this work, you have changed. So you attract new people. When someone comes to us, we may not seize the opportunity because we tell ourselves that before, we would never have been attracted to this kind of individual. It’s a mistake!” warns Céline Colle.
