Romance plays out at all ages. Indeed, today, thanks to new technologies, finding a new partner even after 50 years has become easier. But what are the mistakes to avoid on a first date? We tell you everything about blunders, blunders and other blunders in this article.
The first date!
Whether you have spotted the ideal partner on the internet or in real life… The first date requires you to master certain codes to transform the trial into a lasting relationship.
If applications and websites have indeed revolutionized dating… The first meeting is always synonymous with apprehension. We rarely go there relaxed. There is the fear of doing too much, or not enough. Or even the stage fright of not managing to be desirable, or of not desiring the other… In short, all this anxiety leads us to not be ourselves during this fateful encounter.
Play the ingenues!
You will arrive at this appointment with all your sentimental history. You’ve only had one partner in your life, your ex-husband or more… It doesn’t matter, assume this experience!
Without putting it under the rug, but without highlighting it either. You are a woman who has had experiences, nothing to do with a young person who is starting her love life. So, don’t put yourself in the position of a woman waiting for a man to reveal her to herself in front of this person you are going to meet. Also, do not play scared or innocent to seduce him.
You don’t have to be ashamed of your emotional past, or of your knowledge of human things. On the contrary, it is your strengths, which feed your humor, your analytical mind and your ability to listen to others. Because, on the first date, by trying to look younger than you are, you risk looking older…
First date: make it too new look
Indeed, for a first date, we often want to be to our advantage. To put on a blouse that reveals the neckline, heels that refine the silhouette, a dress that highlights the curves…
You have to feel good in the clothes you wear. Indeed, if you seem uncomfortable, wavering on your pumps, too tight in this skirt or even obsessed with this lipstick that threatens to slip away… You therefore risk not being in the right state of mind.
It is therefore essential to find the right balance between the clothes in which you are yourself and the little extra that will make you sexy. It’s clear !
Talking about his (or her) ex negatively
You have certainly known one or more men’s pleaters. And this is what feeds your power of seduction. But above all, do not immediately unpack your resentment and your tensions that led you to break up…
We do not settle our accounts! The man right in front of you is not here to fix the previous one. So, on the first date, be clear with yourself and with the other person.
If you feel the desire to embark on a new sentimental adventure, it is not to console you for your sorrows of love.
