A romantic breakup or marital breakdown is the social process by which two people forming a couple put an end to this relationship. However, behind this definition also hides a lot of sadness and questions. Here are 4 signs that show that your ex will not come back! Explanations…
Your ex no longer responds to messages after your breakup!
Breakup: according to Véronique Kohn, psychologist and specialist in romantic relationships, questioned on the subject by our colleagues from Obejko… There is no magic indicator according to which your ex would be ready or not to return to the relationship. Indeed, certain profiles or character traits could guide you.
Moreover, among the most obvious clues: a lack of response to the various requests from you. So if, for example, your ex makes it clear to you that he no longer wants to hear from you. Or even that he no longer responds to your messages, or even that he has blocked or deleted your number… It’s because a priori, he/she is quite sure that he doesn’t want to go back. Drop !
Your ex is waiting for it to come from you
Breakup: Véronique Kohn also explains that in some cases, some people do everything to make their partner make the decision to break up. Their goal is therefore not to be the “bad guy” in the story.
When the partner in question decides to break up, on the other hand, they will very rarely come back to him or her since for this type of person, the relationship has in fact already ended for a long time.
He moves on…
The break does not date from yesterday. If you’re still hoping for a comeback, deep down you know very well that your ex-partner has already moved on.
Also, you know that your ex is in the process of rebuilding his life with another person. We must therefore face the facts! There is no better sign than this to move forward. And understand that he will not come back.
Relationship breakup: trust was part of your relationship problems
Individuals who lack self-confidence and have paranoid traits may never come back if betrayed. The latter often need to be reassured and can be jealous.
“These people are focused on their wounds. They had got it into their heads that the other was going to bruise them, betray them at any moment. This rigid behavior can be explained by a lack of protection or abuse during childhood. These people will therefore go into “attack” mode as soon as they feel betrayed again. Once they judge that there has been a betrayal these people are convinced that the other will hurt them again and they will never come back”, explains the expert.
Couple breakup: you are now free as the air!
You say to yourself that finally, the painful breakup you should have thought about before. Yes, but you still couldn’t take the leap. The fear of loneliness paralyzed you. Infidelity, frequent arguments, indifference, domestic violence, repeated lies, immaturity…
So many red cards that should have tipped you off. See the glass half full. After several stages, you will come out of grief.
