Despite the breakup, you are sure, your ex and you are meant to be together! To put the odds on your side, here are our tips, and the mistakes to avoid!
Ask yourself the right questions after the breakuprI’m in love
After the breakup, are you determined to get your ex back, and to rekindle the flame that there was between you at the start of your relationship? First, it is essential to ask the right questions.
Why do I want to go back to him? I really want him? Or am I doing this just so I don’t end up single? Worse still, am I just doing this because my ego has taken a hit and I can’t accept that he left me or found someone?
So many questions to ask yourself before making a decision. Take your time and think carefully about why you want to win your ex back.
Takez time to understand past mistakes
Also, after a breakup, it is essential to take stock of your intentions vis-à-vis your ex. Also, it is important to take stock of past mistakes.
In fact, to put the odds on your side while starting on a good footing… Then take the time to analyze and understand what went wrong between you. Moreover, by identifying these problems you will not make the same mistakes again, and change what was wrong.
leaveAsk him to digest the breakup before trying to win him back
Your ex probably suffered from the separation like you. Certainly for different reasons, but a breakup is never easy.
Indeed, if you are destined to find each other, you find each other, let the pressure go down, and let a lack settle between you.
Sometimes the silence card is the best option. The tensions ease, and if there is still something between you, the lack of the other will certainly be felt.
Forget the “I’m Trying to Make Him Jealous” Plan
No revenge! If you have in mind to make your ex jealous, by playing with social networks to cast doubt on your recent romantic encounters or by flaunting yourself with other men…. You are on the wrong track. STOP!
In fact, this technique will not help you. But on the contrary, it will probably stir up the jealousy of the one with whom you shared your life. But on the one hand, respect for the other after a breakup is essential. And on the other hand, you are more likely to drive it away from you than to attract it towards you…
Takeandz take care of yourself, to get your ex back
Breaking up: instead of trying to make him jealous so that he falls back into your arms is a very bad idea… Take care of yourself instead. Now that’s a great thing!
Not only will pampering yourself, by taking time for yourself, will do you good mentally and thus allow you to gain self-confidence. But you will also send back a positive, neat image and make others (ex included) want to come to you.